“There are two people you’ll meet in your life. One will run a finger down the index of who you are and jump straight to the parts of you that peak their interest. The other will take his or her time reading through every one of your chapters and maybe fold corners of you that inspire them the most. You will meet these two people; it is a given. It is the third that you will never see coming. That one person who not only finishes your sentences, but keeps the book.”
Surely there is a guide on how to tell of someone’s intentions. I would much appreciate it, or rather someone who would tell me upfront that they would just screw me over. I wouldn’t waste my time then.
Our lives are very much like books and I’ve clearly come across too many males that resemble the first person mentioned in the above quote. So much of my time and effort put into a possible something only for it to be trashed a day later. From people who respond to text messages in a flurry to people who distant themselves as soon as they’ve read the chapters they were interested in.
My luck with males is as fabulous as my luck has been finding a new handbag. I’m not a bag person though, when I know what I want and can’t find it – it’s frustrating. So when I know for a fact that I am in fact more or less a relationship girl and the population of males looking for a relationship is oh so slim, it’s no wonder I come across so many people who just talk the talk and flip pages until they lose interest. It happens too often.
Surely someone has written a book based upon the intentions of people. “Let’s try for a relationship!” – no, that’s just too forward thinking! Rude, honest and so forward it carries enough force to erase your number from their phone by itself. Not even sure if that made sense just then.
There is no black and white in this dating world – just a million shades of grey.